Have you seen our brand-new website, Caring House? It has been built from the ground up with the only priority being improved navigation and overall user experience to ensure information and services are more accessible to those in our community.
Get help. Give help. Get informed. Get in touch.
Enjoy the new features:
-messaging chat service
-full list of Caring House and Child Advocacy Center services
-calendar with recent events
-personally written descriptions to get to know each staff member
-educational resources to stay informed on domestic violence, sexual assault, and trauma
-testimonies and stories of survival
-community resources directory
-make donations directly online, choose between at your leisure or monthly automatic donations
Don’t hesitate to let us know if you have any comments/suggestions. Thank you to our generous community for your support. We would not be able to do this without you!
Caring House and the Child Advocacy Center are considered essential businesses and are open to the public.
The Child Advocacy Center is able to conduct forensic interviews at this time. All referral protocols remain the same. A family advocate will be available through the Child Advocacy Center for support.
Residential and non-residential client services are available. Domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking, and secondary victim services can be done online, over the phone, or in an emergency, done in person.
Caring House and the Child Advocacy Center will follow all current CDC guidelines and social distancing protocols. We ask that in an emergency you call the Caring House’s crisis line at 906-774-1112. You will be able to talk with an advocate 24/7.
If you are currently utilizing Caring House or Child Advocacy services and would like to talk with your advocate, please call the Crisis line and set up an appointment. All Caring House and Child Advocacy Center advocates have downloaded Zoom and are able to do face to face, online appointments.
We understand that this is a very difficult time. If you are unable to call the crisis line and need emergency assistance, you can text 911 for help.
Would you like to make a difference in your community? Please consider joining us as a Shelter Advocate!
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Caring House, Inc. is an Equal Opportunity Employer.
Denim Day started as a reaction to a 1998 Italian Supreme Court of Appeals ruling that overturned a 45-year-old man’s rape conviction. The Court claimed that since the 18-year-old victim was forced to help the rapist remove the very tight jeans she was wearing, he couldn’t have raped her–it must have been consensual sex.
Within a matter of hours, women in the Italian Parliament protested and came to work dressed in jeans. The protests spread to the United States, and the first Denim Day was recognized in April 1999, and continues to be recognized every April.
Here at Caring House, we recognize Denim Day by wearing jeans to work. We also have Denim Day pins that we have been handing out as a reminder that there is no excuse for rape and that no clothing serves as an invitation to rape.
There is no excuse. Ever.
April is National Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM). The goal of SAAM is to raise public awareness about sexual violence and to educate communities.
The National Sexual Violence Resource Center released the following statistics:
- Every 98 seconds someone in the United States is sexually assaulted
- 1 in 5 women have been raped
- 1 in 33 men have been raped
What is it about the world we live in that allows for sexual violence to exist and at an epidemic level? Answer: Rape culture.
Rape culture is embedded in our society, and lives in our communities. Its pervasiveness reaches the shows and movies we watch, the music we listen to, where we socialize, on the streets, at school and where we work.
More often than not, it’s situations in which sexual assault, rape and general violence are ignored, trivialized, normalized or made into jokes. So how do we as a society perpetuate rape culture? When 994 out of 1,000 perpetrators walk free, when someone is assaulted every 98 seconds, when entertainers and individuals joke about rape, when men feel entitled to verbally and physically assault women, when men who are victims are ridiculed and dismissed, when we don’t believe or support victims…. That is rape culture!!
To truly commit to the eradication of sexual violence from our communities, we must address the root cause, and why it happens. Community members can work to prevent sexual violence by establishing healthy and positive relationships that are based on respect, safety, and equality. You can be a part of the solution by:
- Being a role model for respectful behavior to those around you
- Talking with your children about healthy sexual development and personal boundaries
- Intervene and speak up when you see inappropriate behavior
- Report suspected child abuse. Know what to do if you or someone you know suspects a child may be being abused
- Educate yourself
A group of nursing students from Bay De Noc West has been doing a class project about domestic violence. They are collecting donations for Caring House, they have given a presentation at the college along with advocate Marti Swisher, and they put together a short video about domestic violence. This wonderful group of students has done a great job and we are very excited to have partnered with them.
If you would like to view the video it has been published on the Caring House Facebook page.
Come out and enjoy yourselves. The jokes will crack you up, the food will fill you up and the silent auction may cheer you up.
It’s been awhile since this was originally posted so we thought we should bring it to the forefront of people’s awareness.
This wheel is used to understand the complicated dynamics of domestic violence and some of the forms it can take. Domestic violence as you can see is not just physical.
To learn more about the Power and Control Wheel, visit the Home of the Duluth Model online.
We in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, live in small communities which we think of as fairly safe. Most of us in no way think there is human trafficking going on in our communities. We are wrong. This is not a tragedy that’s happening in another country or state. According to a 2015 quote by U.S. Senator Gary Peters, Human trafficking is “a growing problem in every county and community in Michigan”. Michigan as a whole is one of the top five states in the country where trafficking is exploding. Human trafficking is the fastest growing criminal industry in the world.
The first ever reported case of human trafficking in Michigan was in a tiny town in the Upper Peninsula, director of the Michigan Human Trafficking Task Force Jane White said. This past year saw a case of human trafficking prosecuted in Dickinson County. Human traffickers are drawn to rural areas and small towns. There is often a smaller police presence and isolated areas, and these criminals feel they have much less chance of getting caught.
According to the Department of Homeland Security, human trafficking is a modern-day form of slavery involving the illegal trade of people for exploitation or commercial gain. The most common form in the United States is commercial sex.
Indicators of Human Trafficking
Recognizing key indicators of human trafficking is the first step in identifying victims and can help save a life. Here are some common indicators to help recognize human trafficking:
- Does the person appear disconnected from family, friends, community organizations, or houses of worship?
- Has a child stopped attending school?
- Has the person had a sudden or dramatic change in behavior?
- Is a juvenile engaged in commercial sex acts?
- Is the person disoriented or confused, or showing signs of mental or physical abuse?
- Is the person accompanied by someone who insists on telling a story all the time…they are a student, they are a tourist, they are here on a visa and there are a lot of inconsistencies.
- Does the person have bruises in various stages of healing?
- Is the person fearful, timid, or submissive?
- Does the person show signs of having been denied food, water, sleep, or medical care?
- Is the person often in the company of someone to whom he or she defers? Or someone who seems to be in control of the situation, e.g., where they go or who they talk to?
- Does the person appear to be coached on what to say?
- Is the person living in unsuitable conditions?
- Does the person lack access to personal identification documents?
- Does the person lack personal possessions and appear not to have a stable living situation?
- Does the person have freedom of movement? Can the person freely leave where they live? Are there unreasonable security measures?
Not all indicators listed above are present in every human trafficking situation, and the presence or absence of any of the indicators is not necessarily proof of human trafficking. For your safety and the safety of possible victims, do not confront someone you suspect may be a human trafficker or a victim, report the information you have to the police.
Traffickers look for vulnerable people. People who are emotionally or psychologically at risk, people who are economically at risk, and people who are isolated. Trafficking victims can be any age, race, gender, or nationality. Trafficking victims can be men or women, young or old, American or from abroad, with or without legal status. Sometimes these criminals have specific victim requests by their clients…example, blond haired, blue eyed boy around 12 years old. They use threats, force and false promises to lure their victims in.
Human trafficking is usually a hidden crime. The victims don’t come forward because they are afraid of their traffickers or even law enforcement. The trauma caused by the traffickers can be so great that many may not identify themselves as victims or ask for help, even in highly public settings.
Facts About Animal Abuse & Domestic Violence
The American Humane Society in association with the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence reports:
Why it Matters
- 71% of pet-owning women entering women’s shelters reported that their batterer had injured, maimed, killed or threatened family pets for revenge or to psychologically control victims; 32% reported their children had hurt or killed animals.
- 68% of battered women reported violence towards their animals. 87% of these incidents occurred in the presence of the women, and 75% in the presence of the children, to psychologically control and coerce them.
- 13% of intentional animal abuse cases involve domestic violence.
- Between 25% and 40% of battered women are unable to escape abusive situations because they worry about what will happen to their pets or livestock should they leave.
- Pets may suffer unexplained injuries, health problems, permanent disabilities at the hands of abusers, or disappear from home.
- Abusers kill, harm, or threaten children’s pets to coerce them into sexual abuse or to force them to remain silent about abuse. Disturbed children kill or harm animals to emulate their parents’ conduct, to prevent the abuser from killing the pet, or to take out their aggressions on another victim.
- In one study, 70% of animal abusers also had records for other crimes. Domestic violence victims whose animals were abused saw the animal cruelty as one more violent episode in a long history of indiscriminate violence aimed at them and their vulnerability.
- Investigation of animal abuse is often the first point of social services intervention for a family in trouble.
- For many battered women, pets are sources of comfort providing strong emotional support: 98% of Americans consider pets to be companions or members of the family.
- Animal cruelty problems are people problems. When animals are abused, people are at risk.
Why do abusers batter pets?
- To demonstrate power and control over the family
- To isolate the victim and children
- To enforce submission
- To perpetuate an environment of fear
- To prevent the victim from leaving or coerce her to return
- To punish for leaving or showing independence
At this time some states have pet protective orders. This is a step in the right direction in the effort to protect humans and pets from domestic violence. The following is a chart of which states have those orders and which don’t at this current time.
Congresswoman Katherine Clark (D-MA) and Congresswoman Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R-FL) introduced the Pets and Women Safety (PAWS) Act of 2015, bipartisan legislation to help the estimated one-third of domestic violence victims who prolong their abusive relationships out of concern for the wellbeing of their pets.
“Sadly, domestic violence is something one in every four women will experience at some point in their lives,” said Congresswoman Clark. “This isolating experience is made even worse for those who fear for the safety of their pet. Most pet lovers, including me, consider their beloved dog or cat a part of their family. No one should have to make the choice between leaving an abusive situation and ensuring their pet’s safety. ”
“Many states allow pets to be included in restraining orders, but what happens when a domestic violence victim must go live with family in another state where pets are not covered?” said Michael Markarian, chief program and policy officer of The Humane Society of the United States. “We must have a national policy that safeguards the pets of abuse victims, and recognizes that domestic violence impacts all members of the family—including the four-legged.”